Tuesday, March 27, 2018

Soulmate...


You never know how many things
had to happen exactly right
for you to meet the one you love,
You never know how easily
fate might have tipped you
onto some other course,
meeting some other person,
who would feel like a soulmate.

Maybe you'd still be telling those you know
it was always meant to be,
As if you knew all along
that your paths would cross.

Or maybe you'd look back at your life
and realize:
it was nothing personal,
it's all just a coincidence.

You never know.

Or do you?

TJ

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Can I Stay A Little Longer

 
 
Strange how strong the instinct is, to see something incredible, and reach for a camera. As if to lend it some credibility, to prove that it's real, that 'I WAS HERE.' 

We live our lives in moments. Those rare experiences we stop to notice, and carry with us, in the hopes of stringing them together, trying to tell a story. But even in the moment, you can feel it start to fade.

 So you try to capture it, and convert it into something that will last longer than just a flash. And over time a photo feels more real than it's subject. It lets you build a version of the world that you can take with you. 

A world flattened, and simple. A world that doesn't change. That fits in the frame. A little brighter and more colorful. With everything under control. You can travel the world looking for memories, and still find yourself standing behind a camera waiting for the world to hold still. 

With every click of the shutter, you're trying to press Pause on your life. If only so you can feel a little more comfortable moving on living in a world stuck on Play. 

A part of you knows you can't take it with you but that doesn't stop you from trying.

 "What if I could stay just a little longer?" "What if we didn't have to go?" 

We try to capture moments as if we're afraid they'll escape, but they'll get away eventually. 

Take one last look. One more shot. 

So years from now you can flip back through, and try to relive it all over again.

But maybe even then, you'll be thinking to yourself, "Ah well. I guess you had to be there."
 
TJ
 

Monday, March 5, 2018

50 Years of Lessons Learned

 
In honor of a friend who died recently
(48 years young)
I want to share some very important
Life-Lessons I've learned.


1. You only have one go of it here on earth, so live in the “now”. 


2. Life is over quickly so fight for what matters – your values and beliefs … hopes and dreams … and those you love. 


3. If you make the sacrifice, you will reap the benefits.


4. Procrastination keeps you tied to yesterday. What you do today will determine your tomorrow. 


5. See failure as lesson, and a bridge to success. We all fail at times – it’s the way we grow and learn. 


6. What we do – not what we say – reveals our true character. 


7. Remember to be kind for everyone is fighting their own battle. 

TJ