Monday, August 13, 2018

Leaving the Past In The Past...


I think sometimes we let nostalgia trick us into forgetting that the people in our past are there for a reason.

We must remind ourselves it is either because we purposely left them there or they ended up there for reasons beyond our control.


It’s okay to think about the past and reminisce the good times occasionally – but don’t obsess over it to the point where you’re sacrificing opportunities in the here and now because you’re too attached to the echoes of things long gone… 


The present is the greatest gift you’ll ever have and the future holds wonders beyond your imagining… Don’t throw it all away by constantly looking for the things you lost along the way…





TJ

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

Do You Really Know You???


Individuals may be better understood when viewed through time. The best way might be to build (writing / putting together) a life-history, our own or of someone else, that can act as the glue that connects seemingly separate events in a coherent story. It is a thread of time that connects and creates a sense of one-ness, explaining the present and future in relation to the past.

When we think of life-histories, we almost always think in terms of a biography. The problem with biographies is that a description from one viewpoint of a life-history can never completely describe all events. It can, however, act to communicate a coherent perception even though there may be plenty of misunderstanding and illusion remaining.

Autobiographies are also flawed in that while they may or may not be honest, it is a singular viewpoint from 'inside the machine' that can never be objective. They do, however, give meaning to the individual as they stitch together events and find personal meaning.

Bourdieu (1987) notes that constructing a life-history has less to do with being a reflection of life itself, but more to do with being a technique for reconstructing experience, a device for producing the experience of self as being in harmony. He also believes that while the 'unified-self' is not a complete illusion, it neither is natural nor fundamentally human. Society includes many individualizing methods.

As an example, he describes a person's name like this:

"The proper name is the visible affirmation of the identity of the bearer across time and space, the basis of the unity of one's successive manifestations, and of the socially accepted possibilities of integrating these manifestations in official records, curriculum vitae, cursus honorum, police record, obituary, or biography which constitute life as a finite sum through the verdict given in a temporary or final reckoning." (Bourdieu, 1987)

The life-history 'illusion' is that a proper name refers to a group of features or traits that define the permanent core of a 'self' that exists before the history. 
Bourdieu claims that no such basis exists, and that legal, governmental and beautiful personalities are not related, therefore making it difficult to identify a single 'person'. In the legal sense, many attributes of the person are conferred rather than are intrinsic.

What would your life-history look like?

Have you ever thought about it?

Would you like to better understand who you really are???


TJ
Works Cited:

Bourdieu, P. (1987). The biographical illusion. Working Papers and Proceedings of the Centre for Psychosocial Studies (Univ. of Chicago) 14, 1-7