The prophet Isaiah
put into words the truths we, like the Israelites, must remember when
contemplating any aspect of life, and his words are very useful when we are
specifically discussing how we should look at change. Isaiah, speaking to the
Nation of Israel, gives the people assurances from God that He (God) will
restore them to where they needed to be. Isaiah tells them to trust God through
the changes that life has, and will, send their way,
Now this is what
the Lord says— the One who created you, Jacob,
and the One who
formed you, Israel — “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
I have called you
by your name; you are Mine. I will be with you
when you pass
through the waters, and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not
overwhelm you. You will not be scorched
when you walk
through the fire, and the flame will not burn you.
For I Yahweh your
God, the Holy One of Israel, and your Savior.
(Isaiah 43:1-3,
HCSB).
The comparison of Dwight Bain with
Isaiah would be foolish at best, but to understand how Bain’s approach to
counseling fits into the Christian mold would be highly useful. Much like
Isaiah, Bain paints a picture in his writing called, Hidden Power of Change that makes clear that change will happen and
it will happen fast, it will involve discomfort, and often times it will be
painful. However, Bain (2005) tells us, much like Isaiah does, that God is
always there with what we need when we need it to make change a positive
experience. The first step we make when embracing change is the hardest, but
Bain (2005) states that God waits for us to take the step, and then He (God)
steps in and guides us on our journey.
Bain
focuses, in this writing, on just about every aspect of change one might could
think of, and many times he seems to be repeating himself. The overall theme of
his work follows along the same idea as the writer of Hebrews,
Although
by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to
teach
you the basic principles of God’s
revelation again.
You
need milk, not solid food. Now everyone who lives on milk is
inexperienced
with the message about righteousness,
because
he is an infant. 14 But solid food is for the mature—
for
those whose senses have been trained to distinguish between good and evil
(Hebrews
5:12-14, HCSB).
Bain writes that
change is necessary, and without it, “real life is lost” (Bain, 2005).
Bain stresses that in order to grow, and experience a fulfilling life we must
learn how to manage change in our life.
In this writing Bain puts forth a
litany of change related ideas. When reading this work it is easy to get caught
up in almost a speed reading adventure. Like his description of change come at
us fast, the layout of the article lends itself to fast reading. It is almost
as if he planned it that way. Bain’s use of positive psychology is quite
infectious. His ideas on how to change, why to change, what happens if we do
not change, and everything in between are offered from a very positive
perspective. Although Bain gives some of the downside related to change, or not
changing when it is called for, he does it in a way that should make anyone
ready to run out and meet the changes in their life head-on.
Bain, in almost everything I have
seen, uses a cyclical approach to engagement with the person of persons with
whom he interacts. He will begin in such a way as to get the hearer excited
about what he is going to say. He will have them on the proverbial edge of
their seat with anticipation. Then he gives them the truth of the situation
causing them to reflect on their own life sparking a little pessimism. However,
Bain will bring things back into perspective with how things are not as bad as
they seem. He concludes by offering a workable solution to the issue being
addressed. In this work he gives us insight into the reality of handling change
in a positive way,
I’ve
studied what people say when they are facing the end of their life, and noticed
that they find their greatest satisfaction from areas they took the positive
action to change. Relationships that grew strong, houses or businesses they
built, financial security they achieved and then wisely invested, health and
happiness from doing something different to leave a positive legacy. Those were
the things that people smiled about as they faced eighty years worth of life. (Bain, 2005)
In the final
analysis concerning Bain’s writing about change, Apostle Paul gives a great
word concerning temptation I believe is also applicable to how Bain counsels
others about change, “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to
humanity. God is faithful, and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what
you are able, but with the temptation He will also provide a way of escape so
that you are able to bear it” (1 Corinthians 10:13, HCSB).
References
Bain,
D. (2005). Hidden Power of Change. Retrieved June 2012, from Dwight
Bain: http://www.dwightbain.com/docs/TheHiddenPowerOfChange.pdf
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