10 Qualities that can make your personality attractive

Someone with an attractive personality:

1. Is warm and friendly towards others

2. Is open and real

3. Knows their own strengths and weaknesses - and neither boasts nor puts themselves down

4. Looks for the good in every situation, and is generally positive and optimistic

5. Doesn’t gossip or pass on others’ secrets

6. Doesn’t gloat when things go wrong for others

7. Is secure and has a healthy self–esteem; is not self-centered and narcissistic

8. Is not highly critical or argumentative

9. Is not possessive and jealous in relationships

10. Makes time for the people they care about

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5 Ways to Help You Become Confident Without Being Arrogant

1. Be Approachable – People tend to be uncomfortable around those who are stand-offish or keep their distance from others. Being warm and friendly will help put others around you at ease.

 

2. Be Genuine – People who are not transparent, insincere, give false complements, and/or try to impress others can be spotted a mile away. The antidote is to be who you truly are. Be a “real person” and do not put up a front. 

3. Be Humble – Share praise with others every time you get the opportunity. Give others credit for what they do well.

4. Listen to people and be willing to ask for advice – The proud know-it-alls never wants input from others. They do not value the viewpoints of others. We appreciate it when others want to learn from our experience, or when they want to know what we really think.

5. Recognize your weaknesses and mistakes – Doing this will move you up the likeable scale in a big way because you will appear more human.

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7 Questions to Help You Change Your Life

1. If you had all the money in the world, how would you choose to spend your life? 

2. What makes, and when do, you lose yourself…and later realize that you lost all track of time?

3. What lifts your spirits on a dark day?

4. When you are old, and you look back on your life, what things will matter to you the most?

5. What are 3 things that you really hope to achieve in life?

6. What kind of person do you want to be?

7. Who would you say is a role model for a life well-lived?

7 Things You Need To Know About Dealing with a Narcissist

1. Don’t expect empathy, understanding, or praise and recognition. Keep your private thoughts and feelings close to the vest, and do not open up or make yourself vulnerable. 

2. Expect them to be rude and say offensive things.

3. Don’t be offended by what they say and/or do because it is not about you. They treat others the same way.

4. Praise them publicly (if the occasion arises). They are always looking to be noticed or affirmed.

5. They are not going to change or be influenced to see things different than they already do. So do not waste your time trying to convince them.

6. They will drain you dry emotionally. They will try to lay guilt upon you at every opportunity. It has nothing to do with you. They just cannot be satisfied.

7. Don’t push for a meaningful relationship with them. It will always be one-sided.

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