How to Start Loving Who You Are

1. Start by being kind and gentle with yourself. There are plenty of people who would love to criticize … So be your own protector and your own best friend.

2. Choose self-love over self-hatred. Many people find they drift back and forth between these two extremes – but over time gravitate more towards one or the other (through involuntary thinking and their inner dialogue) … So actively reject self-hatred, and then exercise self-love.

3. Stop being harsh and judgmental and accept your imperfections. We’re all flawed and broken, and we all make mistakes.

4. Start enjoying who you are and being alone with yourself. Embrace solitude, and the chance to be with “you”.

5. Think of all the different things you’re grateful for in life, and the people who have loved you, and have seen the good in you. As you do that, you will start to value who, and what, you are.

TJ

Want to be More Attractive???

 

A person who is off-the-charts attractive will have these qualities:

 
Are warm and friendly towards others

Are open and real

Know their own strengths and weaknesses - and neither boasts nor puts themselves down

Look for the good in every situation, and is generally positive and optimistic
 
Absolutely will not gossip or pass on others’ secrets

Never takes pleasure when things go wrong for others

Is secure and has a healthy self–esteem; is not self-centered and narcissistic
 
 Is not highly critical or argumentative

Is not possessive and jealous in relationships

Make time for the people they care about

These are just the basic qualities. There could be many more, but without the basics everything is only skin deep...

 
TJ 

Change part 2

These words describe perfectly my current location along the road of my life:

I will not be forgotten
This is my time to shine
I've got the scars to prove it
Only the strong survive
I'm not afraid of dying
Everyone has their time
I've never favored weakness
Welcome to my life

TJ