Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 17, 2017

The Past



When you hear people from my past speak of me, keep in mind they are speaking of a person they don’t even know any more.

I have wounds that never show externally that are far deeper and more painful than any wound that bleeds.

Sometimes you just have to turn around, smile, throw the match, and burn that bridge.


TJ

Thursday, July 6, 2017

When You’re Trying to Figure out your Life Remember...




We can't predict the future; we don’t know what lies ahead. All we can ever do is try to figure out a plan. 

Our friends and our parents don’t know the future either. Our life is OURS to live – don’t let ANYONE plan it for you. 

Enjoy what’s happening now; hang out, and do things with your friends...make the most of “now”. 

Uncertainty and change are a big – normal – part of life. So, learn to become comfortable with “not knowing right now.” 

Procrastination, although common, can really stop you from succeeding. Just take a step and act – regardless of the way you feel. 
 
You need to learn to focus – and ignore all distractions – otherwise, you’ll never really progress or succeed. 
 
Life is full of lots of chances – you can usually try again – or try another option if you mess things up this time.

TJ

Thursday, August 13, 2015

10 Lessons from Einstein


1. Follow your curiosity

2. Perseverance is priceless

3. Focus on the present

4. The imagination is powerful

5. Make mistakes

6. Live in the moment

7. Create value

8. Don’t expect different results unless you do things differently

9. Knowledge comes from experience

10. Learn the rules then play better

T

Monday, January 20, 2014

The Myth of UnCreativity




There is a myth about creativity that it is all about genius and talent. Certainly, there is no smoke without fire, and some people do have a particular bent for it, but the reality is that we all have far more capability to be creative than we realize.
When we were children, we were more creative than our parents and teachers could handle. We thus learned not to be creative, and most of our lessons were structured and controlled, and the lessons were so effective for many of us, we were left with the belief that we were never creative and could never be creative.
The patterns of non-creativity often carry on as we grow older and we get stuck in habits and 'I am not creative' goes from being an excuse to a description the mental ruts into which we fall.

Learning to think
Just as we can learn to swim, so also can we learn to think. People such as Edward de Bono have put significant effort into teaching thinking as an acquired skill. Socrates did it many years ago. He would answer a question with another question, forcing his disciples, including Plato and Aristotle, to think for themselves.
A simple way you can do this is to buy puzzle books, especially those that include tricky and lateral thinking games. Crosswords are another mind-bender that can help you climb out of your rut. You can also vary the method – working on jigsaw puzzles, for example, helps your visualization.
Another variant is to sign up for a class where you will have to think outside your normal patterns of thought. If you are a scientist, take an arts class. If you are an artist, study philosophy. You can also do these in your spare time. Books cost pennies and contain gold dust and gems.

Learning by doing
The army uses a term: 'muscle memory'. When you go on a long march, your muscles seem to remember how to march a long way and months later a similar march is nowhere near as hard. The same is true with creativity. Once you have opened the gates and got stuck into some really hard creative work (it is a myth that it is all fun and easy).
Get engaged in any creative activity you can. Offer yourself as an out-of-the-box thinker for other people's brainstorming sessions. Paint, sculpt or take photographs. Climb mountains and shout from the hilltops.
Do things to break your own paradigms. Wear different clothes. Get a different haircut. Enter for creative competitions. Read things you wouldn't normally read. Step outside the box and push the boundaries to expand your comfort zone.

Practice, practice
The secret is to keep on going with as many different things as your brain can take. Go on different holidays. Take up different hobbies. Drive to work by different routes.
Build yourself a regular schedule of practicing creativity. Just like going to the gym, spend quality time in practice. Plan the activities and exercises you will do, as well as the ways you will use it to enhance your life.
Many people have found simple, but valuable ideas that they have turned into profitable businesses. Do you think you could not do that? What is stopping you?
Keep generating ideas. Look around you for problems to solve. There are many opportunities all around you, right now. Look at the issues you and others are facing. Look at the little difficulties, from unscrewing a tight lid in the kitchen to lifting heavy items out of the car.
Practice may not make perfect, but it will make you a whole lot better at creativity.

T
“Inter caecos regnat strabo”
Among blind people the squinting one rules.
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